Turn ‘BullShit’ to Manure and Grow Stronger !

Good to have you back! 🙂 .Firstly, I want to thank you guys for checking out my previous post and sharing your thoughts. I really appreciate..
Ok,moving on.Tell me: What comes to your mind when you hear the word ‘Bullshit’ ? Cow dung, right ? Yea, obviously.. But hey,(please note) my use of the word ‘bullshit’ here is strictly metaphorical. Ofcourse am not an Agriculturist here to talk about cow sh*t and stuff. Nah, not even close..
We’re living in a harsh, harsh world.  I’m sure you’ve noticed that you can now get a daily dose of cheap shots here on the Internet. Follow the comment section after most web entries and you’ll find truck-loads of hyper-critical, snarky comments.  Turn on your TV and there it is again. people openly judging and grading others harshly..
Are you afraid of criticism(BullShit) ? If you are, then you’re likely to end up doing nothing with your Life! Believe me.
You see, dealing with criticism is something that we all have to face. One of the toughest challenges when going after a dream is to have people laugh at and ridicule you. Having to deal with setbacks and challenges when pursuing a goal is hard enough, so when you have people who basically tell you to give up and stop dreaming, it just adds to the difficulty. Countless people have given up on their dreams because someone told them they couldn’t succeed. Has this ever happened to you?

Yes, It would be great to have a support group where everyone is encouraging and completely believes in your ability to achieve your goals but not everyone is that lucky. I know I’ve been told plenty of times that I would never be successful at anything and that I need to quit dreaming. Dealing with criticism is a lot easier when people who you don’t really care about tell you stuff like this, but when you have people who should be supporting you say those things, it can really be a huge blow to your confidence.

When dealing with criticism, you must realize that people’s opinions of you are just that, opinions. Just because someone tells you they don’t think you will ever amount to anything, it doesn’t mean they are right. You must develop unshakeable confidence and belief in yourself. There are tons of successful people who have been told they are a piece of crap their whole lives. you must learn to either ignore those opinions or use it to work even harder and give you more reason to not give up.

It’s only when you start to doubt yourself and believe what they say, will their opinion of you start to shape your reality. Don’t let this happen. Don’t give them the satisfaction of being right.

What Do They Know?

Have you ever Noticed that a statue has never been erected to a critic?

If someone belittles you,he is only trying to cut you down to his size.
When you allow other peoples words to stop you,they will. To succeed in life you must overcome the many efforts of others to pull you down. Once you think more about what other people think of you,you’ll have more confidence in their opinion than yours. Don’t let your life depend on the permission of others!

Who you are today has little to do with who you can become in the future because you can decide to take actions today that will lead you down an entirely different path than you were previously heading. Don’t let other people’s opinion of you make you doubt yourself because if you do, you are letting them control your fate. The decisions you make and actions you take is what will determine whether or not your dreams will become a reality.

Hear Les Brown “Someone else’s opinion of you does not have to become your reality.”
Decide today not to surrender your dreams to noisy negatives!
When you’re kicked from behind, it simply means you are out in front,right ? 🙂

So, the next time someone tries to predict your future or criticise you. Simply turn that BULLSHIT to MANURE, and grow stronger!! Remember, sticks and stones are only thrown at fruit-bearing trees! You won’t attract erasers if you don’t make your MarK in Life.
Cheers! 🙂
Emeka..

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4 thoughts on “Turn ‘BullShit’ to Manure and Grow Stronger !

  1. Nkay

    Hmmm.. Nice.. Lesson learnt 🙂

  2. Sophia

    Tell u wat? I’m really inspired

  3. obia chiedozie

    As a song writer said,’if no one talks about you then you’re nobody’…i strongly agree with your advice…thanks for being a source of encouragement not just to me but to many..keep affecting lives!

    1. emekatalks

      I totally agree with you. Happy you’re inspired bro. Thanks!

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